7 reasons why women cheat

                You’ve probably heard that men cheat for physical reasons, women for emotional reasons. Sure, there’s some truth to that, but when we asked real women around the country to share why they strayed from their boyfriends, we learned they had a whole host of explanations — from bad kissing to sheer revenge. Read on for the truth about why women have given in to temptation.

Reason #1: There’s no passion
“I had been with John for about three years — he was a really nice guy, and I enjoyed being with him, but there wasn’t a ton of passion. Most everyone we knew had gotten engaged, and though John would have proposed in a second, whenever he brought it up, I’d change the subject. I took a trip to Australia for work and while I was gone, I got together with a coworker to whom I’d always been insanely attracted. I had a fantastic trip, probably because for the first time in a long time I experienced that excitement I’d been missing. I broke up with John soon after I returned home and began dating the guy from the trip. Even though I’m not super-proud of my actions, things ended up for the best: after dating for a few years, the guy from the trip and I got married and we’re incredibly happy together.”
– Giselle, 30, Montvale, NJ

Reason #2: To delay a breakup
“Right before I was going to break up with my ex, Sean, he found out that he had to put his beloved dog to sleep. He was so broken up about it that I didn’t have the heart to end things, so I waited a month or so until he was in better shape. When things seemed to be better and I was ready, he lost his job, so I felt like I was back to square one! By that time I had met someone else that I really wanted to start seeing, so I went ahead and did it. I eventually ended things, never telling Sean about my extracurricular dating. I think I rationalized that I was trying to spare his feelings.”
– Stacy, 30, Lexington, KY

Reason #3: Because absence doesn’t make the heart grow fonder
“My boyfriend Greg and I decided to do the long-distance thing after I was accepted to a graduate program 200 miles from where we lived. The first few months were fine, but I soon found myself becoming extremely attracted to my lab partner, Henry. What began as innocent flirting eventually wound up with us getting physical. After the program was over, I returned home to Greg. Being with him was really difficult, but I didn’t break up with him initially because I was still attracted to him, too. I visited Henry a few times and realized that he was really more of a fling, probably done out of boredom, and that Greg was the one for me. I eventually stopped communicating with Henry. I never told Greg about what happened, which occasionally makes me feel guilty, but I chalk my cheating up to being young and silly. He and I are still together, four years after my program ended.”
– Tamara, 33, Portland, OR

Reason #4: To avoid being left out in the cold
“I began dating Eric shortly after I had been dumped by Dave, my boyfriend of two years. I was devastated and Eric was definitely a rebound thing. After Eric and I had dated for five months, Dave came back and wanted to give things another shot. I still really missed him, so I began seeing him, but never ended things with Eric. I think I sort of kept Eric around for insurance purposes, just in case things didn’t end up well with Dave. Dave and I didn’t make it on round two, and after Eric discovered through mutual friends that I had been seeing him again, he ended things with me. I definitely learned my lesson about dating two guys at the same time, not to mention trying to rekindle a relationship that’s just plain over.”
– Jen, 28, Oak Park, IL

Reason #5: To make a break from a bad relationship
“When I was younger, I dated a guy named Ethan who was really critical of me. He constantly made little snide comments about my weight, how stupid I was and how clumsy I was. For whatever odd reason, I was into him, despite the fact that all of my friends and family hated him. One weekend when he was away, I met Will at a party and we completely hit it off. He was the complete opposite of Ethan — kind, sweet and generous, yet completely cool and fun, too. We hung out all weekend and it was like a light bulb went off in my head: This is how mature, relationship-worthy guys act. I kissed Will the night before he left and broke up with Ethan soon after. Will and I dated for three years and now we’re married.”
– Allison, 30, New York, NY

Reason #6: To find that missing piece
“I’m from Florida, so I adore going to the beach and boating, but my former boyfriend, Chris, a total city boy, hated it. We always argued about where we’d take trips, and he always won. About eight months into our relationship, I took a trip to Key West with my friends and we chartered a boat for the day. The captain of the boat was this totally hot, complete ‘beach guy for life’ type, and I spent the whole day flirting with him. We met him out that night and spent time alone together. I never told Chris about it after I got home and I never felt guilty; I think part of me felt like that’s what Chris got for being so stubborn! Chris and I didn’t make it, and after we broke up, I made sure any future boyfriends loved the beach!”
– Lizzie, 32, Chicago, IL

Reason #7: To give him a taste of his own medicine
“My last boyfriend was a total player before we got together. I thought I could change him but I was wrong. I always heard rumors that he was seeing other girls while we were dating, but he always denied it. One night, I got a call from a girl he had been secretly dating, and she detailed their three-month-long relationship to me and told me about another girl she had discovered he was seeing as well. I was so mad that I went out with my friends that night, dressed to kill, and spent time with the most attractive guy; I felt like it was the least he deserved! I loved seeing the look on his face when I told him about what I did and that I knew about the other girls. And then I dumped him!”
– Ashante, 25, College Park, GA

How To Make Younger Women Chase You

Does he REALLY like me... or is he just playing
games, like he does with ALL his girls?

This is what should be running through her head
while you tease and flirt with her. It makes her
want to keep playing the game.

Whenever she's with a guy like this, she'll want
to look her best, and act her sexiest, in order
to get the confirmation she craves.

The key is to NEVER give her total confirmation.

When a woman is attracted to you, she desperately
wants to know if the feeling is mutual!

You can work women into a frenzy this way...by
NEVER letting the girl know that she's "won."

For this reason, you must never tell her how long
you've wanted to ask her out, admit how attracted
you are to her, or tell her how you think the two
of you would be "great together."

If these sound like winning romantic gestures, turn
off your television, because you've been watching
too many Hollywood
movies.

Only in the movies can the dork or the shy guy win
over the hottest girl in school in the end because
he makes some grand, romantic declaration.

In reality, it's more likely that she'll regard
this as weakness on your part. (Remember, emotional
STRENGTH is one of the big keys to attraction.)

Nine times out of ten, your "confession" isn't
going to prompt her to confess her own attraction
to you.

It will only take you down a notch in her eyes.

You are no longer an original; you are just another
guy who can't control his emotions or his libido.

Play it cool and act like nothing fazes you.

You're a train moving full-steam ahead.

The choice is hers:

She can climb onboard and take an exciting ride,
or you can roll without her to the next stop.

Either way, you're an independent guy, doing your
own thing.

It will become clear whether she is interested in
you on a sexual level.

You won't be shooting in the dark, worrying that
she'll freak out if you try to touch her.

When you follow the correct progression of steps,
escalating from conversation to physical touching,
you'll never have to wonder whether she "likes you
as a friend" or whether she's interested in more.

You'll know how to read her signals, and your
tactics will be gently leading her down the path to
"yes"...instead of giving her reasons to say "oh,
look at the time...I should be getting home
soon."

Evaporate the physical boundaries between you by
making body contact with her.

The best times to do so are when you're both
laughing.

Reach over and give her a knee a light touch.

High-five her and interlace your fingers with her,
then disengage.

What you're doing is acclimating her to your touch,
so that it becomes something she is comfortable
with.

This way, later in the night when you hold her
hand, kiss her for the first time, or initiate the
foreplay that leads to sex, she's already "warmed
up" to your touch.


Guys will often fail to escalate because they don't
want to be seen as too aggressive.

(It's just an excuse, really, for not wanting to
risk rejection--and they're not confident that she
will agree to the escalation, because they haven't
laid the right groundwork.)

If you've laid the groundwork, made her physically
comfortable with you, and built up her attraction
by framing yourself as a hard-to-get "prize,"
she'll be receptive when you take things to the next
level. But it's on you to lead her there.

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I remember one time having a girl sleep over at my
house, in my bed, and I didn't "try anything"
because I didn't want to screw it up.

We lay there together and talked for hours, then
she drifted off to sleep while I laid next to her
all night with a hard-on.

I figured there was no hurry, and that if I acted
like a gentleman she'd trust me and we'd have sex
next time.

Unfortunately, there was no "next time."

She never called me again.

By not escalating with her, she viewed me as a Wuss,
and she may have even felt a little bit insulted.

She's an intelligent, sexually experienced adult.

She knew what was supposed to follow when she
willingly climbed into my bed and laid down next to
me.

But I failed to lead her down that path.

The key is to BUILD UP to intimacy and sex with a
progression of steps.

Perhaps the biggest mistake that guys make is trying
to seduce women before the groundwork has been laid.

You don't ask a girl out on a date before you've
spent time chatting with her and getting her
interested in you.

Likewise, you shouldn't go for a kiss when you
haven't even laid a finger on her all night.

You build up to the first kiss by making contact
with her throughout the evening: touching her leg
while you tell a story; giving her a brief hand
massage; brushing her hair back from her eyes;
placing your hand on the small of her back as you
guide her through a door...etc.

(The small of her back is actually a GREAT spot to
make contact with. It's an erogenous zone that is
dense with nerve endings.)

If there is a mutual attraction, let her be the one
to express her feelings to YOU, and when she does,
play it even more cool.

If she says something that implies she likes you and
wants to date you, give a vague response that strings
her along.

HER: "So what you do you think...y'know, about you
and me?"

YOU: "I've enjoyed spending time with you. Let's
just take it slow and see where it goes...no
pressure, no expectations."

(The more you seem like you don't really give a shit
either way, the more DESPERATELY she'll want you to
validate her feelings!)

But don't give her that validation. Keep her
wondering: will she ever be able to have you all for
herself, or will you be with another girl tomorrow
when she's waiting for your phone call?

She'll want to keep earning points with you, to get
the confirmation that she desires. In the meantime,
you are the one holding the cards.

And if you're ready for an IN-DEPTH education on
everything from overcoming fear, approaching younger
women... to getting numbers and dates AND taking
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Talk Soon,


MARTIN MURIITHI

5 Steps for *Building Confidence* Around Women

I'm sure you're tired of hearing this:

Women like guys with confidence.

This is a hard pill to swallow if you're someone
who *wants* to be confident; but doesn't know how
to overcome those feelings of insecurity.

Like many guys; I've had difficulty with my
confidence levels in the past.

There were some days when I felt like
everything went wrong in my life.

Other times; I felt like a rock star!

What finally changed for me was to re-frame how
I viewed dating and women.

In short, I developed a *specific mindset* when
it came to the opposite sex.

Now there is a lot that goes into this
philosophy.

To be honest, it requires a lengthy explanation
that can't fit in this short message.

My point is I learned "how to be confident" by
adapting a strategic belief system.

five steps you can use
to build confidence around women:

#1- Challenge:

If you want to change a belief from a negative
one to a positive one, you'll first have to
challenge the validity of the negative belief.

#2- Accept:

Once you've challenged your old belief you then
have to accept a new one to go in its place.

#3- Proclaim:

After you thoroughly believe your new belief,
you'll have to see if your actions are
projecting the same belief.

#4- Feedback:

After you proclaim your belief you'll have to
gauge the reactions of other people.

#5- Submit:

Finally, when you've gotten enough
sufficient feedback and enough people agree with
your belief, you'll finally accept that belief
as FACT.

I'll admit this might sound a little like a
whole lot of psycho-babble.

Truth is this stuff *actually* works.

By creating a new belief system; you're training
your brain to think in a whole new way.

ie: You're programming your mind to become
confident!

Keep this stuff in mind for the rest of the
day.

Tomorrow I'm going to talk about how to use
your body language to display a *confident vibe*
which is naturally attractive to women.

Talk Soon,

MARTIN MURIITHI

How to Be Seductive with your Body Language

Specifically I briefly went over the five steps
to building a confident personality around women.

What I didn't mention was the importance of
body language.

You see, over 90% of *what you say* is done on
the non-verbal level.

You can literally seduce a woman through your
movement and mannerisms.

Don't believe me?

Watch the guys who are really good with women.

Odds are, they don't really say a lot.  Instead
they let their attitude do the talking.

.

Again, this is another important lesson that I
was reminded of while reading Joshua Pellicer's
course.

In it, he talks about how body language plays a
critical role in what he simply calls "The System."

(These are the four steps during an interaction
that's used to successfully attract any woman.)

.

After reading Chapter 7 of his product; I was
reminded of a small report I put together a few
years back.

Here's an image:

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It's called "Seductive Body Language" and it's
a guide to using non-verbal communication to
QUICKLY amplify her attraction.

Joshua's material reminded me of a section in
this report that I call "13 Traits of High
Status Body Language":

1) Don't seek approval from others

2) Have a Confident *Look*

3) Show strong eye contact

4) Walk with purpose

5) Always be at ease

6) Smile at people

7) Sexual communicate with women

8) Lead women by taking bold action

9) Show playfulness

10) Have a teasing personality

11) Be dominant around women

12) Act cool

13) Have high energy

.

In the last week, I was tossing around the
idea of selling this report.

It's over 10,000 words of quality content.

So I know many guys would line up to buy
it.

.

Instead I've decided to offer it as a bonus.

On Friday morning; I'll provide more details
about how you can get your hands on it.

Till then, I want you to observe your body
language.

Do you think you're *acting* confident around
women?

If not, then pay close attention to this math
formula:

90% of your communication is done on the
non-verbal level.

That means displaying "weak," inferior body
language causes you to succeed with women only
1/10th of the time.

That's pretty shitty odds if you ask me.

Monitor your body language as you go out.

Even if you *eliminate* a few bad traits, you'll
still increase your chances with the
girls you're meeting.


Talk Soon,

MARTIN MURIITHI

8 Types of Women You'll Meet in the Singles Scene

Okay, I'll admit I was a bit skeptical
when I heard about the "8 types of
women."

But I started looking for these qualities
whenever I went out.

Oddly enough, over 90% of the girls I
met *easily* fit into one of these
archetypes.

It might sound weird.

But this stuff actually works with the
women you meet.

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So what are these archetypes?

Well, I've reviewed my copy of Pandora's
Box to give you a sneak preview of the
EIGHT types that Vin discusses:

#1- The Playette

This is girl who LOVES being the center
of attention from multiple guys.

Typically she'll lead most of them on;
until she meets a guy who fits her
long-term requirements.

Then she's fiercely loyal to this man.

.

#2- The Hopeless Romantic

*This* girl should come with a warning
sign.

She's looking for the one; but never
fully commits till she finds him.

Unfortunately she'll want to *fix* any
guys who shows potential.

The major catch here is The Hopeless
Romantic tends to lose interest once a
guy has been "fixed."

.

#3- The Seductress

The trick to getting a girl like The
Seductress is to be a CHALLENGE.

Girls like this are experienced in life;
including their sexuality.

They grow bored with the men who pursue
them; but are strongly attracted to guys
who confidently live their own lives.

Do things on YOUR terms and you'll
get a woman like The Seductress.

.

#4- The Connoisseur

This girl has "player radar."

She avoids any man who gives off the vibe
of a pickup artist.

So it's important to attract her using
long-term strategies.

The key here is to build trust and gain
her confidence; before trying to make
a move.

.

Watch this video to learn how to *get*
each of these 8 archetypes:

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.

#5- The Modern Woman

For many guys; this is the "Holy Grail"
of all women.

She wants to find the right guy, but
is not afraid to date around till she
meets him.

Typically this girl won't have any
hang-ups about sleeping with different
men she's dating.

In a way, The Modern Woman uses sexuality
to screen a man and see if he's "The
One."

.

#6- The Social Butterfly

This is another type of woman who is
sexually liberated.

She dates a lot; but isn't really looking
to find a permanent relationship.

For now, her goal is to have fun and
enjoy life.

.

#7- The Cinderella

Like the name describes; this woman is
looking for her knight in shining armor.

Usually she'll quickly fall for guys;
often mistaking sexuality for true
intimacy.

The problem with dating a girl like this
is you have to immediately match her
relationship needs.

Otherwise she'll move on to find the
next Mr. Right.

.

#8- The Private Dancer

This is a woman who is desired by many men.

So it's hard to truly get her attention.

The trick is to be a high status man who
adds value to her life.  Only then will
she be interested in you.

She doesn't get physical with any ole guy.
The man who gets her has to be something
special.

On the other hand, this girl will be very
loyal once she's found the right man.

.

So there you have it!

Those are the EIGHT different types of women
you'll meet in the singles scene.

When engaging a girl in a conversation; it's
important to know her type.

That's why I recommend you take a look at
the Pandora's Box system I've mentioned
throughout this message:

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Watch this video and you'll learn how to read
her mind and know her type...

...All in ONE minute.

Talk Soon,

MURIITHI MARTIN

Stop Doing *This* Around Women

Today I'd like to talk about a SPECIFIC thing
men do around women.

Perhaps you do it too.

If that's true; then I guarantee it's holding
you back from meeting the quality women you
deserve.

What's this behavior?

It's displaying "The Nice Guy" attitude that's
not attractive to most girls.

Truth is there are a lot of guys who try TOO
HARD.

You know the type I'm talking about...

These are the guys who will do ANYTHING to
get attention.

They'll buy gifts.

They're ready to please.

And they always kiss a girl's ass.

You might *think* this makes you more
'dateable' to a woman.

Unfortunately this "nice guy behavior" ruins
your chances of success.

Acting like a supplicating wimp only repels
girls. Trust me; it does NOT attract them!

Without going into psychological mumbo-jumbo;
the nice guy presents no challenge to a woman.

Most of them want a guy who presents a
challenge.

So don't be the overly sweet.

Instead; talk to them in a way creates a whole
lotta sexual tension.

This means setting up a strict set of standards.

Judge women on how they fit YOUR criteria.

Only then will you make the decisions to date
them.

Having a personal code of conduct gives the
appearance of an attractive guy with STATUS.

This is an important concept that I was reminded
of when I reviewed this site:

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Furthermore, you should challenge women if
they're disrespecting you or not matching up to
your expectations.

While you might feel weird or think you're
disrespecting women, there are strict rules for
attracting them.

By not kissing a girl's ass and doing everything
she asks, you'll getting rid of the 'Nice Guy'
persona.

And as a result, you'll transform yourself into
the kind of man who women desire.

Simply put; you'll be a badass that attracts
girls.

Finally it's EXTREMELY important to develop
confidence.

This is especially true if they challenge or try
to reject you.

By carrying yourself with an "I don't care what
happens" attitude, you'll act like a woman who
isn't concerned about the outcomes of an
interaction with women.

In fact, you'll look like you're not trying too
hard.

Trust me...this kind of attitude is incredibly
intoxicating to women.

By acting like a confident guy with status,
you're setting yourself apart from the needy,
undesirable behavior that most guys demonstrate
around women.

This is the core principle behind displaying an
attitude that's naturally attractive to any
woman.

If you'd like advanced information on this
subject; then I recommend checking out the
following:

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This the only site that teaches the skills to
become a badass man that naturally gets women.

It's the perfect antidote to forever eradicating
the nice guy attitude that's holding back from
getting quality women.

Talk Soon,


MARTIN MURITHI

THE Formula for Seducing Strippers

I have to admit something...

I've never really been a fan of strip clubs.

Without going into the gory details, I've had an
*insider* look into the strip club scene.

I've RARELY seen any guy successfully meet and
attract a stripper.

Back in the day, I would see guys REALLY try hard
to pick up these girls.

Without fail, they end the night POORER and
HORNIER.

So...I was a little skeptical when I was recently
approached by a guy who claimed to have one of the
first *black books* completely devoted to seducing
& picking up strippers/exotic dancers:

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This guy (a dude named Dean Cortez) even claims that
his *secret* black book was the only thing a guy
would need if he wants to sleep with them (without
paying) or even get them as girlfriends (lame).

Now the skeptical side of me screamed: BULLSHIT.

Like I said, I'm friends with a couple of strippers.

And they ALL tell me stories of these pathetic guys
who regularly blow HUNDREDS of dollars each night
for a few lap dances and a kiss on the cheek.

But Dean was REALLY persistent and kept insisting that
I run through his materials.

In the end, I caved, I thought "what the heck" and
gave his stuff a shot...

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**Shocked!**

From the get go, everything dived straight into
ADVANCED seduction & game; the hows, whens, whats
and why's...

... and I liked it!

And since I've have a NUMBER of guys asking for help
in this area I feel I'll be doing you a dis-service if
I don't at least tell you about this site.

(Remember, these 'types' of girls are EXTREMELY picky
when it comes to men because they have TONS of guys
hitting on them every day).

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Here's what you'll find in this *secret black book*:

- How to bypass her top 5 excuses (eg. "Sorry
sweetie, I don't date customers")... and show her that
you're the kind of guy she would want to date (or go
out and have fun with.)

- How to completely shut down her "stripper talk" by
showing her that you are an "insider"... that you are
"in on the secret"...and get her to treat you
differently than the rest of the chumps in the club!

- How to cleverly show her that you are the "stripper
boyfriend" type and that, unlike most guys, you can h
andle dating a woman like her!

- Where strippers hang out when they're not working,
and how to use power techniques to pick them up in
these other environments.

- How to manage relationships with the strippers you
date, and stay in control at all times.

- How to use subconscious phrases to get her in a
sexual, spontaneous, "loose" frame of mind with NO
resistance right up the point she gets into your bed.

... and much more!

To sum it up, Dean's techniques are simple, practical
and most importantly; it's DO-ABLE.

Unlike other so-called 'experts' who teach far-out,
over-the-top techniques that makes you look like nothing
but an ASS in front of women, he reveals SIMPLE tactics
that can be used in ANY situation with women (however
tricky).

The entire "black book" course contains AMAZING content
that gives you specific, step-by-step detail on how to
reel these exotic women in.

What's great is you can immediately get your own copy
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I HIGHLY recommend it!

MARTIN