7 Steps for Dominating ANY Social Scene

An incredible social life is the cornerstone of a successful dating life. It's a simple equation: More people = more opportunities = More girls But what can you do if you're a guy who doesn't have a great social life? Well there's a couple of solutions. In the fact, I've perfected a simple 7-step system for dominating ANY social encounter: . Step #1 - Call your friends The first step is to provide a simple baseline for the rest of this plan. Right now, you probably have a core group of friends who are part of your social circle. If you want to meet more people then you're going to start with this group. So the initial thing to do is call up your friends and make plans to do something different. The key is to organize an event which brings you out of your comfort zone and make you fun stuff. In other words, you want to start going to places which provide a social environment. . Step # 2- Look for hidden opportunities As you become more social you're going the likelihood of getting invited to different events. Due to inertia, most guys avoid "uncomfortable environments." Instead of doing this, you should start going to these events EVEN if you don't think they'll be fun. The truth is you never know what'll happen when you try different things. Perhaps the most boring event could provide a chance to meet an interesting girl. So never pass up an invitation to an event. The rule of thumb is if you don't have plans, you'll ALWAYS accept an invitation to do something. . Step # 3- Make friends While it's great to have old friends, your social life can get a real shot in the arm if you start making new friends at the events you're frequenting. One piece of advice I recommend is to talk to EVERYONE at these events. Even if it's a bunch of guys, you can still get a lot of social mileage by talking to people who have connections. Even the most mundane person probably knows a few attractive women. By making connections with everyone, you're giving yourself opportunities to find new friends and meet more girls. Here's a video that explains how to make an INSTANT connection with any girl you've met: ==> http://www.chickmagnet101.com/social.html . Step #4- Keep contact with your new friends I like to think of friends as currency. The more you have, the more you opportunities you'll accumulate. As you meet new people, you'll start to build momentum on the number of buddies you'll acquire. In order to maximize your opportunities, you should maintain constant contact with the friends that you're making. Even if you're just sending a quick email, a consistent correspondence with your friends will improve your social life. By communicating with your friends you'll stick out in their minds when a cool event is about to happen. . Step #5- Keep up to date Almost every area has lots of fun stuff happening. The problem is most guys won't bother to look for them. Instead they're satisfied with doing the same thing over and over. Don't be like these guys. Instead become the man who is up to date on all events happening in your area. All you have to do is open you're local paper and you'll have access to dozens, even hundreds of fun things going on. Right now, commit yourself to spending a few minutes each week looking for interesting events going on in your area. . Step #6- Plan events It's human nature to want to be around fun people. So if you become the guy who plans out the fun times then you'll become the focal point of your social circle. What you want to do is plan out a few different interesting activities EACH month and invite everyone that you know. Eventually the people in your social life will look to you to plan out the good times. Over time, you can use these events to meet interesting women. Again, this is critical part of being a social master that's naturally attractive to women: ==> http://www.chickmagnet101.com/social.html . Step #7- Be fun Finally, you have to go beyond being the guy who plans out fun events. At all times, you must display a fun and interesting personality. When you attend social activities, you should be regarded as the guy who can make others have a good time. The truth is most people live boring lives. If you're the source of interesting experiences then people will want to hang out with you. The end result is you'll become the first person they call when they want to have a fun night. Improving your social life is one of the crucial elements for meeting and dating a lot of women. If you follow the seven rules I just discussed, then you'll discover that it's pretty easy to transform into a fun guy who has an incredible social life.

3 Questions That Make Her Want To Sleep With You

In addition to trust building, also ensure that you're at a place
CLOSE to her (for example, you and her alone at your place with no
interruption, etc).

3 Questions To Sex" Methodology

Question 1: "What excites you when it comes to sex?"

For example, if she says, "It makes me feel LOVED", then follow up
with this question:-

Question 2: "So what does feeling LOVED (or any other value she
answered with) give you?"

This is the indication that makes her know that she has achieved
what she wants from sex. Let's say she answers with, "I feel CLOSE
to the person that I am with."

Question 3: "What it is like when you're intimately CLOSE with this
person (point at yourself), where you can feel your skin brushing
against his skin (use sensual languaging!)...?"

Her: "It's warm, cozy... and it makes me feel alive."

Now, repeat it all back to her: "Let's say you're with this man who
you feel intimately CLOSE with... and you feel his skin brushing
against yours... it's something that makes you feel loved and
warm... and you feel ALIVE..."

Women get turned on by having them DESCRIBE the feelings of sex
(and female orgasms). Ultimately, you want her to FEEL the
sensation of sex IN HER BODY. Getting her to TALK about her
FEELINGS during sex is the ultimate SHORTCUT to make her feel
aroused.

Look...

Despite what taught elsewhere, seduction does NOT have to be slow,
complicated and tedious. For the ultimate SHORTCUT to seduction
success, check this out -

KENYAN LAD

LIFE IS SHORT

My colleague passed away three weeks ago after being hit by a bus 500 meters from his home, by good luck we were always in good terms and open in all matters wether personal or official. he taught me that patience is the most vital value one can possess and always the key to happiness.he always boosted of how he had found the perfect woman and was ready to settle and was planning to wed on november and start a family. R.I.P KEVIN, you will always live on in our hurts.

LOVE can be defined in many ways but it depends on an individual. i was in a four relationship and mennn it was crazy. the normal up and downs were usually there but mostly we were good together and much in love. the real problems started when my partner go a job while i was studying, she never had time and when free she went out with her girlfriends. 3 months down the line i discovered she was cheating on me with her boss (bulgarian). most of her friends knew and never told me or even drop a hint. i had my doubts but i always told myself she would not do that to me because tulikuwa tumetoka mbali.

i came to find out about the affair after she had dumped me via sms, i felt i was at the end of the road and almost killed myself. after being accused of making her miserable by everyone i let it go and hoped one day i would move on. i became a loner because i could share a table with my friends because they knew and never said anything, it took time to heal form the heartbreak and betrayal but i finally let it go.

from their i went into "playa mode" where i slept with any skirt that brushed my trousers, after a while i got tired of that life and decided to cool down and really search for that true love. i now know what i want from someone else and how to know am appreciated and cherished. i have always boosted of being one of the good men left and i intend to keep it that way. i love appreciating people and my queen to be will be loved forever.

the problem is finding the right person and its kinda hard with our city filled with gold diggers and ladies just after a good organism. relationship values are not being taken seriously by both sides of gender and one can never be correct about another one. i recently met a young lady and she swept my feet all over sudden. very sincere, full of life, independent, mature even for her age and most importantly she understands herself. i want to know her better but i have my reservations as she does too. she thinks she isn't ready for a relationship whileas i think she is but cant force her or rush things.

it has just donned on me this morning that true love exists and one can easily find it. one has also to overcome the pain and fear to be happy. whoever reads this article should sit back and analyse if they are really happy in their relationship/marriage and if their spouse is worth their time, attention, love and life. life is too short and one needs to enjoy its gifts and blessings.

MARTIN

The Six Sixes-HOW WOMEN JUDGE AND CHOOSE MEN THESE DAYS

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• What You Need To Know
• Women who are looking for perfect-10 men are judging us based on the Six Sixes.
• Not every guy's car has to have 600 horsepower, but econo-boxes won't do.
• The most important criterion is the one you fear the most.

"Women have come up with a system of their own to weed out the average Joes from the Brad Pitts."

You know how men use a scale from 1-10 to determine a woman’s attractiveness? A 10 is a smoking-hot babe a la Rosie Huntington-Whiteley, and a 1 is something that crawled out of a murky Louisiana swamp. Well, women have their scale too, and it’s called the Six Sixes. But unlike men's method, which judges women based solely on their appearance, the Six Sixes evaluates men on their bodies, their income and their ability to…perform.

In other words, women have come up with a system of our own, created to weed out the average Joes from the Brad Pitts. Shallow? Perhaps, but don’t think she’s not judging you. Unless she’s a gold digger and solely out for the cash, most gorgeous, independent women are going for the gold: the crème de la crème of men. Put plainly, we're looking to score as many sixes as we can. The more sixes a girl can score, the better. A ten-incher or a seven-figure salary can make up for a lack in the other departments, but if you’re majorly missing one of the below, you might want to start working on filling in the gaps. Read on for a breakdown of the Six Sixes.

A six-figure salary

These days a six-figure salary isn’t much, but it’s sure as hell better than a five-figure salary. Five figures is fine for your average Joe, but to many ambitious women, five figures screams middle class. A successful woman is searching for someone who can treat her to the finer things in life: last-minute weekends in Paris, vacations in Bali and expensive dinners. But it’s not just about the material things. No matter how equal women become to men, when it’s all said and done, money equals power and masculinity. A man who earns a lot of money can more easily take care of his family. And to a lot of us, that is way sexy.

At least six feet tall

It almost goes without saying that taller men are more attractive to women. Six feet is a good starting point; it’s sort of like how guys think of a 36C cup size. Height suggests safety and security. We like to feel small and protected in the arms of our guy. A man who’s two inches taller than us is not likely to make us feel sexy or taken care of. More likely we'll feel like we're hanging out with a friend -- and that is not going to get us hot and bothered

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"A guy who's flabby? Not so much."

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At least 600 horsepower in his car

All right, a guy doesn’t absolutely need a 600-horsepower car. But he does have to drive a car that’s powerful. A Chevy Aveo isn’t going to cut it. A Mercedes, BMW, Lexus or Bentley is a good pick for the fancier girl. For a more laid-back type, an SUV or Audi would be a good choice. But no matter what, station wagons, hatchbacks, minivans, or small budget cars are out if you want to impress Dream Girl.

A six-pack abdomen

A six-pack is just an added bonus, but it’s a big one. Sure, a guy without one can be attractive, but there’s nothing more pleasurable than touching a guy who’s hard as a rock. It makes sex that much more fun. Plus, a guy in shape is more likely to go all night. A guy who’s flabby? Not so much.

At least six months since last relationship

This is an important one for anyone, male or female. If a woman is looking for a keeper, she’s looking for someone emotionally available, and that means someone who is well over his last relationship and not looking for a quick fix for his broken heart. There’s nothing worse than knowing you are the rebound girl.

At least six inches below the belt

This sixth point of the Six Sixes is likely to be the one that makes guys the most nervous -- or the most confident, depending on where they stand. To be fair, not all women need a guy who’s at least six inches. But those women are generally not highly sexual. For the rest of us, a minimum of six inches is essential if we want to get off. Lest you think this is superficial, think again. It’s a matter of basic physics: A larger penis makes it easier to hit the g-spot, therefore making it easier to orgasm. A wider penis causes more friction, which enhances pleasure. So if you’re not packing down below, make sure you’ve got those oral and fingering skills down pat.

The bottom line? The Six Sixes are a way for women to measure her man’s virility. If you’re lacking in one of the above, start making some changes -- or settle for being just average.

Signs She'll Make A Bad Wife

• What You Need To Know
• Certain characteristics are warning signs for a troubled marriage down the road.
• Traits like jealousy and flightiness don't disappear after marriage.
• If she wants you to change now, she will still want to once you're married.

"Contrary to the wisdom of pop songs, love is not enough to make a marriage work. "

If you’re thinking of asking your girlfriend to become your wife, there are a few things to consider first. Deciding if you’re ready to make the commitment to marriage is only half the battle. Now you must figure out if the woman in your life is the right one to devote yourself to until death do you part. It’s a complex situation, but there are a few warning signs that your girlfriend is not marriage material. Here's some of the most obvious hints that she’ll make a bad wife.

She’s flighty

A woman who has trouble committing to a job, a friendship or even a hairstyle might not be the best person to swear your undying loyalty to. If she has tried numerous short-lived career paths or is constantly making new friends and dropping the old ones, these may be indications that she’s not the kind of girl who’s in it for the long haul. Settling down simply may not be in the cards for someone so free-spirited and fickle.

Even if she sticks around, consider the possibility that her ever-changing lifestyle could derail your own life plan as well. Getting married means combining your lives in nearly every sense. Give some serious thought as to whether or not she will be a good influence on your future.

She’s jealous

If your girlfriend is jealous of every girl who comes near you, putting a ring on her finger is not going to make her more secure. Everyone gets jealous sometimes, but if you find yourself constantly having to reassure her that the other women in your life are not a threat to her, this could spell doom for a long-term commitment. A good wife is not possessive or irrational. As long as you’re not giving her any reason to be suspicious, she should be able to keep the green-eyed monster in check.

Her sex drive doesn’t match yours

Sex is an important part of any relationship, and the way you relate to each other physically has a big influence on whether you stay together after you say “I do.” One sign that she might make a bad wife is if her sex drive differs wildly from yours. Whether it’s much higher or much lower than your own, her libido will have a huge effect on your happiness as a married couple. Sex-drive issues can be the result of medical or psychological problems, so problems might come and go, but either way, it’s best to work this out before you walk down the aisle.

She doesn’t want your friends around

A girl who disapproves of you hanging out with your friends will become a wife who doesn’t want you to have your own life outside of the marriage. Even if she’s not that fond of your buddies, she shouldn't stand in the way of you spending time with them on your own. Provided your friends aren’t convincing you to rob banks or some other objectionable behavior, she should trust you to make your own decisions about your friends. If she tries to restrict that now, it’ll only get worse after you say your vows.

She tries to change you

If your girlfriend is constantly nitpicking about your appearance, your behavior, your personality, your career path, your friends, and your habits, she is essentially telling you that you’re not good enough for her. Everyone can make improvements in their lives, and a good partner should help you become a better man, but if she’s forever on your case about changing one thing or another, she’s going to make a bad wife.

You also have to decide whether or not the things she’s asking you to change are reasonable or out of the question. Can you give up your vision of a loft downtown for her desire for a house in the suburbs? What if you’ve always wanted to be a father and she is dead-set against having children? Ask yourself how much you’re willing to give up to please her.

Not marriage material

Contrary to the wisdom of pop songs, love is not enough to make a marriage work. Getting married means sharing your entire life with another person, so you want to make absolutely sure that she is someone you’ll be happy spending time with day in and day out. Keep an eye out for these warning signs that she will make a bad wife and avoid committing to the wrong woman.

5 Steps For Making Her Fall in Love

At some point in his life, EVERY guy wants to fall
in love.

While it's a lot of fun to date different women
and play the field, there will be a time when you
want to go beyond a casual relationship.

In all likelihood, you'll come to the point where
you want to find that special someone.

So how can you make the woman that you want love
you back?

Well here are 5 simple tips to make this happen...

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~~> Step #1- Know that love is different then
attraction

The one thing you should always remember is
attracting a woman is MUCH different than getting
her to love you.

In other words, it's easy to show a high status
personality to hook her interest.

But it's a lot harder to get her to develop those
lasting kind of feelings that go beyond simple
sexual attraction.

That's why you should show the REAL you that's
hidden beneath the surface.

With love, you have to show FEELINGS and
reciprocate her nurturing nature.

You should allow her to be attracted to the fun
and alpha side of you, but love the good person
you are deep inside.

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~~> Step #2- Act like a MAN

Real men don't act in a deceptive and fake
manner.

If you want her to love you, you must be worthy
of this love.

This means avoiding all the games that men and
women play during the courtship period.

A real man is good to the woman he's with and
doesn't do anything to hurt her.

Ultimately her love must be returned through
YOUR actions and words.

So if you're into dating multiple women, don't
tell her she's the ONLY one.

In fact, if don't want to settle down, do
yourself a favor and keep her at an emotional
distance.

It'll only end up hurting her feelings if
you're not looking for a committed
relationship.

On the other hand, if you're secretly harboring
feelings for a certain girl, NOW is the time to
DO something about it.

Here's a site that can show you how:

==> http://www.chickmagnet101.com/inlove.html

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~~> Step #3- Make your intentions evident

I'm going to be honest here...

Women like to think long term!

If you've established yourself in a
relationship, then she's probably thought about
what it'll be like with you on a
permanent basis (ie: marriage).

So if this is something you want in your life,
then your actions should reflect this goal.

In essence you have to act in a way that'll
demonstrate a genuine desire to settle down and
possibly marry her.

To do this, you should bring her around your
friends, invite her to important functions in
your life and basically include her in all
aspects of your life.

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~~> Step #4- Communicate with her

Communication is to key to developing a loving
relationship.

Unfortunately as a gender we're not known for
our communication skills.

However if you're serious about this woman,
you have to be open about the things which
are going on in your life.

This also means taking a genuine interest in
what she's doing and getting to know her an
intimate capacity.

Furthermore, there will be times when the two
of you will get in an argument.

When these moments happen, you have to remember
she is someone you love, and you shouldn't say
anything which you can't take back.

In other words don't intentionally hurt her
feelings.

.

~~> Step #5- Keep things fun and sexual

One of the obstacles in a relationships is
the "friend trap."

This is when you slowly develop into more of
a friendship rather than a relationship.

Finally you must ensure that your relationship
is still fun and exciting as it evolves.

While most women are looking for a special
someone who can share their feelings, you
can't let things get boring and stagnant.

If you're serious about this woman then you
must WORK to keep things fun.

This means still being a fun, interesting guy
and keeping the romance alive.

So go on exciting trips, buy her presents,
and don't be afraid to spice things up in the
bedroom.

Love is the ultimate goal of a serious
relationship.

If you can make her love you then you'll be on
the pathway towards build an incredible future
with the woman of your dreams.

Talk Soon,


KENYAN LAD

How to Become More Charismatic to Women

Let me ask you a question...

Do you want to be more charismatic to women?

Hopefully you answered YES!

The truth is charisma is one of those traits that
can have a HUGE impact on your success with women.

As you've probably noticed, there are some men
who can create attraction with just a few words
and a quick look.

Even if they're average looking, these guys now
the secret to establishing an instant connection.

The question is can you LEARN to be more
charismatic?

Fortunately the answer is yes. But it requires
that you develop a couple of habits.

Here are five ways you can do it:

1- Accept that it can be learned

Before you change things up, you must first accept
that charisma is something which you CAN learn.

If you REALLY don't think it'll work, then you'll
probably fail.

Just understand that charisma is something that
can developed no matter what you're like.

Think about all those famous actors and celebrities.

Many didn't start out as being charismatic.

They have to be coached and trained to improve their
voice, body language and acting.

The end result they were able to transform themselves
into a charismatic person.

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2- Find your own style

Another way to be charismatic is to learn how to
become your own person.

While it's important to model guys who show a
natural ability, you should learn how to be your
own person and find your own style.

For instance, if you're a naturally quiet person,
then you should develop a calm, confident and
charismatic personality.

Having an attitude like this helps when you're
dealing with one-on-one interactions.

This will be much easier than trying to transform
into a loud and outgoing person,

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3- Show charismatic body language

Body language is a critical element to becoming
more attractive.

That's why I recommend you take a look at this site:

==> http://www.chickmagnet101.com/more-charisma.html

A suave person is a guy who can show charisma with
just his presence.

For instance, he has exemplifies many qualities
through his non-verbal communication like:

** Confidence

** A relaxed pose

** Good posture

** A positive expression with a smile
.

4- Be congruent

In order to be charismatic, your words and actions
must match your overall demeanor.

In other words, you need to be congruent throughout
your entire lifestyle.

So instead of trying to "fake it till you make it",
you should work on the things that are holding you
back.

By eliminating your sticking points and become truly
confident in every situation, you'll develop this
magnetic personality trait.

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5- Be authoritative

When you're talking to a woman, don't be afraid to
show a confidence in your words or actions.

By speaking about topics like an authority, you'll
impress women with your confidence.

So no matter what you say, remember to show
confidence.

In other words, if you act nervous around women,
you won't be showing charisma.

As you can see...Charisma is something that CAN be
learned.

If you take the time to develop these 5 basic traits,
you'll be on your way towards being a charismatic
guy.

Finally, charisma goes hand-in-hand with your basic
*look*.

This is another area where guys struggle.

Frankly, many men display an unappealing look, which
generally repulses women.

The good news is there's something that can help.

Go to this site to learn a few simple ways for
becoming MORE handsome around women:

talk soon

MARTIN MURITHI

5 Rules for Dating Multiple Women

For many guys dating multiple women seems like a
dream come true!

At first it seems like it's lots of fun hanging
out with different girls and having a guaranteed
supply of sex.

Each night you can pick and choose who you want
to see.

Bu there is a dark side to dating multiple women...

If you're not careful, it can destroy your life.

When you're dating different women, you're
multiplying your risk of something going
completely wrong.

That's why it's important to know the right way
to juggle your dating partners.

I believe in a following a few simple tips when
you're trying juggle a few girls at the same
time.

Specifically you should follow these FIVE simple
rules...

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1- Be truthful

The first rule for dating multiple women is the
hardest.

It's simple. Just be honest and tell each girl
that you're dating other women.

Have you ever heard the famous expression:

"Hell hath no fury than a woman scorned?"

Well this definitely true when a girl feels like
you've been lying to her. The truth is dating
multiple women can cause a LOT of problems in
your life.

If you're lying to women and not telling them
that you're dating other girls, then BAD things
will happen if you're caught.

Trust me on this one.

My advice is to be honest to every woman you're
dating. Just explain that you're not ready to
settle down and you like to go out with other
girls.

While some girls won't want date you, they'll
at least respect your candid nature.

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2- Be in control

Dating multiple women involves a bit of work
and effort.

When you're out with a different girl every
night, you have to make sure you're a master
juggler.

Now in order to avoid dropping any balls and
messing things up, you have to be in complete
control of your dating life.

Go here and watch this video that discusses
how to MASTER your dating life and meet the
*kind* of women you want to date:

==> http://www.chickmagnet101.com/multiple.html

For instance, you should be the one to set
up the dates, control where you go and decide
when to talk.

You want to control the situation so you can
"pencil in" each girl without being obvious
about your dating habits.

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3- Set standards

It's a weird psychology, but women are
attracted to men who are pre-selected by
other girls.

By demonstrating you're a selector instead
of the selectee, women will treat you
differently from other guys.

To show a "strong" personality you must
set a strict code standards in your life
and let women know about them.

Then if a girl you're dating breaks a rule,
let her know you won't tolerate her actions.

If she's a repeat offender, then you ditch
her.

Dating multiple women is about having the
freedom to walk away from toxic women who
can destroy your life.

Set some standards and force women to follow
them!

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4- Show them respect

Now dating multiple women isn't always about
what you want.

There are a lot of women who don't mind dating
"a player", but they don't appreciated being
disrespected.

No matter what, treat ALL women well and don't
make them feel like they're being used.

You can do this simply by calling them back,
treating them like gold on your date and ensure
that each has a chance to go out with you on
important nights (Friday & Saturday).

.

5- Know how to find new girls

Typically when you've dated multiple women for
awhile, you'll have some who transition out of
your life.

It's a simple truth that some women want to
be in a committed relationship or need more
from a guy.

So be prepared to stop dating some women.

My advice is to remain friendly to the women
you've dated. You never know when things might
change and you want her back in your life.

Also she might have cute friends. ;-)

Now in addition to being friendly to past
girls you've dated, it's also important to
find new women to go out with. So always keep
your eyes out for new women!

Here's a great place that shows how to quickly
find the EIGHT types of women:

==> http://www.chickmagnet101.com/multiple.html

Dating multiple women requires a high level of
multi-tasking.

If you don't know how to date multiple women,
then bad things can happen to you.

All you have to do is follow these five rules
and you'll find it's easy to date multiple women!


Talk Soon,

martin muriithi