Why Women Flake And Exactly What To Do About It

Why do women flake on plans?

Have you ever made plans with a women and then
30 minutes before meeting she sends you a text
saying:

"Totally forgot. I have plans to meet my
grandmother and can't make it"

or

"Seems work has called me in last minute. Can we
reschedule?"

I am pretty sure you have experienced this at
least once in your life.

I can tell you for certain that this woman did
not just "remember" she had plans.

She is flaking.

She is a female flake.

When a woman likes a man there is no way she would
cancel plans on him for something else. AND if she
does cancel she will make certain they have
concrete plans in the future.

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How do I know?


So have each of my Wing Girls and so have each
of my female friends.

So the question is why do women do this?

Unbeknown to them, women do this because they are
selfish. To avoid their own discomfort they will
be polite and accept an invite with absolutely
no plans of ever following through.

I do want to add in, that this is not malicious
behavior from women.

It is in no way planned or meant to be cruel.

Women are not trying to embarrass you or be mean.

It is simply done to avoid an awkward situation
for her.

It is easier to say yes to an invite or give out
a phone number than to say NO.

At least that is what most women feel and what
felt in the past.

They would much rather avoid the phone or flake
on a date rather than being rude and saying NO
to your face.

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Again, this is selfish behavior that is based
in female insecurity.

Women don't realize how hurtful these actions
are to another person. They don't realize the
frustration, annoyance and hurt men experience
when they have a woman flake on them.

They think they have avoided being mean and
rude when in fact their actions were actually
more cruel.

Now, I am going to try to my best to teach
the women of the world to be honest and say
what they mean but that is going to take some
time.

Here are some tips on how to protect yourself
against the flakes!

These tips will help you ensure you don't
waste time, money and energy on women that are
not into you.

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Tip #1 - Don't Get Angry

When a woman texts you 15 minutes before your
date that she "forgot" she has another
obligation understand that this means she is
not into you.

Instead of being angry or hurt about her
flaking, feel sorry for her that she was not
mature enough to be honest.

This will create a calmness in you because you
will realize that this is a type of woman that
is not worthy of being with you.

A woman who cannot speak the truth is not
worthy of your attention nor is she mature
enough to handle you.

If you like you can express back your
disappointment in a mature manner that lets
her know you will not accept this behavior. A

gain, do not be a dick but maturely express
that this behavior of flaking is not cool.

For example write something like:

"Totally understand that things can slip the
mind. In the future it would be best to
check your schedule so that you aware of
your commitments. My time is very valuable
to me and I hope you will respect that in
the future. No hard feelings. Have fun at
your event!"

It's firm, shows you have respect for
yourself and is also soft at the end to let
her know you are still safe.

Hopefully she will learn that her behavior
was not cool and either correct it with you
OR correct it in the future.

Either way a good deed has come out of the
situation.

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Tip #2 - Don't Leave The House Before
Confirming

To save yourself a drive and possible parking
fee text her before you leave your home about
an hour before you are set to meet.

Say "Running about 10 minutes late. Hope
that is still cool?"

This text gives her the time to take her out
if she wants it. Truth is if a woman is
going to flake she is going to flake but at
least with this move you can save yourself
time, money and energy.

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Tip #3 - Learn To Spot Signs Of Interest

The possible flake date can be avoided by
being armed with knowing what it looks like
when a woman is interested in you.

I must add that these are not fool signs to
look for because circumstance can play a
role in many interactions.

For example, sobering up.

Some women will only be very available to
you for a single night. Meaning potential
for a one night stand but no date a week
later.

Another example is personal reason.

She may be on the rocks with an ex, she may
be super stressed in her own life, she may
be getting over a break up, she may have
just been up for flirting that evening.

So many reasons exist as to why her
feelings faded after an evening.

Another example is meeting someone else.

Attractive, quality women may meet someone
else that they are more interested in.

Therefore they will now put their energy
into this new guy.

The signs to look for that she is
interested your sexually or for dating are:

- Making eye contact

- Ignoring her friends even if it is a
girls night

- Slightly touching you (too much touch is
a sign of extreme comfort and possible
future friendship)

- Engagement in conversation

- Twirling her hair

- Puckering her lips

- Going to the bathroom all touched up and
looking fresh

Once you ask for the number listen for the
pause. The awkward pause where she debates
whether or not to give you a real number or
fake number.

Most women who want you to call, if they give
you their number have been waiting for this q
uestion to come out of your mouth. Meaning
there should be no pause.

A pause usually translates into possible flake.

These tips will assist you with determining
whether or not a woman will flake on you and
will also assist you when you are dealing with
a flake.

The important thing to remember is that when a
woman is a flake it is a reflection on her.

It shows that she is not confident enough in
herself to give a real honest answer and is
scared to look poorly in someones eyes.

I have learned my lesson about flaking and try
to teach every woman I come in contact with the
importance of being upfront and honest.

Again, I will do my part to stop this from
happening and you can do your part to stop it
from happening to you!

Talk Soon, 

KENYAN LAD