I'm sure you're tired of hearing this:
Women like guys with confidence.
This is a hard pill to swallow if you're someone
who *wants* to be confident; but doesn't know how
to overcome those feelings of insecurity.
Like many guys; I've had difficulty with my
confidence levels in the past.
There were some days when I felt like
everything went wrong in my life.
Other times; I felt like a rock star!
What finally changed for me was to re-frame how
I viewed dating and women.
In short, I developed a *specific mindset* when
it came to the opposite sex.
Now there is a lot that goes into this
philosophy.
To be honest, it requires a lengthy explanation
that can't fit in this short message.
My point is I learned "how to be confident" by
adapting a strategic belief system.
five steps you can use
to build confidence around women:
#1- Challenge:
If you want to change a belief from a negative
one to a positive one, you'll first have to
challenge the validity of the negative belief.
#2- Accept:
Once you've challenged your old belief you then
have to accept a new one to go in its place.
#3- Proclaim:
After you thoroughly believe your new belief,
you'll have to see if your actions are
projecting the same belief.
#4- Feedback:
After you proclaim your belief you'll have to
gauge the reactions of other people.
#5- Submit:
Finally, when you've gotten enough
sufficient feedback and enough people agree with
your belief, you'll finally accept that belief
as FACT.
I'll admit this might sound a little like a
whole lot of psycho-babble.
Truth is this stuff *actually* works.
By creating a new belief system; you're training
your brain to think in a whole new way.
ie: You're programming your mind to become
confident!
Keep this stuff in mind for the rest of the
day.
Tomorrow I'm going to talk about how to use
your body language to display a *confident vibe*
which is naturally attractive to women.
Talk Soon,
MARTIN MURIITHI
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