games, like he does with ALL his girls?
This is what should be running through her head
while you tease and flirt with her. It makes her
want to keep playing the game.
Whenever she's with a guy like this, she'll want
to look her best, and act her sexiest, in order
to get the confirmation she craves.
The key is to NEVER give her total confirmation.
When a woman is attracted to you, she desperately
wants to know if the feeling is mutual!
You can work women into a frenzy this way...by
NEVER letting the girl know that she's "won."
For this reason, you must never tell her how long
you've wanted to ask her out, admit how attracted
you are to her, or tell her how you think the two
of you would be "great together."
If these sound like winning romantic gestures, turn
off your television, because you've been watching
too many Hollywood
movies.
Only in the movies can the dork or the shy guy win
over the hottest girl in school in the end because
he makes some grand, romantic declaration.
In reality, it's more likely that she'll regard
this as weakness on your part. (Remember, emotional
STRENGTH is one of the big keys to attraction.)
Nine times out of ten, your "confession" isn't
going to prompt her to confess her own attraction
to you.
It will only take you down a notch in her eyes.
You are no longer an original; you are just another
guy who can't control his emotions or his libido.
Play it cool and act like nothing fazes you.
You're a train moving full-steam ahead.
The choice is hers:
She can climb onboard and take an exciting ride,
or you can roll without her to the next stop.
Either way, you're an independent guy, doing your
own thing.
It will become clear whether she is interested in
you on a sexual level.
You won't be shooting in the dark, worrying that
she'll freak out if you try to touch her.
When you follow the correct progression of steps,
escalating from conversation to physical touching,
you'll never have to wonder whether she "likes you
as a friend" or whether she's interested in more.
You'll know how to read her signals, and your
tactics will be gently leading her down the path to
"yes"...instead of giving her reasons to say "oh,
look at the time...I should be getting home
soon."
Evaporate the physical boundaries between you by
making body contact with her.
The best times to do so are when you're both
laughing.
Reach over and give her a knee a light touch.
High-five her and interlace your fingers with her,
then disengage.
What you're doing is acclimating her to your touch,
so that it becomes something she is comfortable
with.
This way, later in the night when you hold her
hand, kiss her for the first time, or initiate the
foreplay that leads to sex, she's already "warmed
up" to your touch.
Guys will often fail to escalate because they don't
want to be seen as too aggressive.
(It's just an excuse, really, for not wanting to
risk rejection--and they're not confident that she
will agree to the escalation, because they haven't
laid the right groundwork.)
If you've laid the groundwork, made her physically
comfortable with you, and built up her attraction
by framing yourself as a hard-to-get "prize,"
she'll be receptive when you take things to the next
level. But it's on you to lead her there.
This is something that's covered here:
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I remember one time having a girl sleep over at my
house, in my bed, and I didn't "try anything"
because I didn't want to screw it up.
We lay there together and talked for hours, then
she drifted off to sleep while I laid next to her
all night with a hard-on.
I figured there was no hurry, and that if I acted
like a gentleman she'd trust me and we'd have sex
next time.
Unfortunately, there was no "next time."
She never called me again.
By not escalating with her, she viewed me as a Wuss,
and she may have even felt a little bit insulted.
She's an intelligent, sexually experienced adult.
She knew what was supposed to follow when she
willingly climbed into my bed and laid down next to
me.
But I failed to lead her down that path.
The key is to BUILD UP to intimacy and sex with a
progression of steps.
Perhaps the biggest mistake that guys make is trying
to seduce women before the groundwork has been laid.
You don't ask a girl out on a date before you've
spent time chatting with her and getting her
interested in you.
Likewise, you shouldn't go for a kiss when you
haven't even laid a finger on her all night.
You build up to the first kiss by making contact
with her throughout the evening: touching her leg
while you tell a story; giving her a brief hand
massage; brushing her hair back from her eyes;
placing your hand on the small of her back as you
guide her through a door...etc.
(The small of her back is actually a GREAT spot to
make contact with. It's an erogenous zone that is
dense with nerve endings.)
If there is a mutual attraction, let her be the one
to express her feelings to YOU, and when she does,
play it even more cool.
If she says something that implies she likes you and
wants to date you, give a vague response that strings
her along.
HER: "So what you do you think...y'know, about you
and me?"
YOU: "I've enjoyed spending time with you. Let's
just take it slow and see where it goes...no
pressure, no expectations."
(The more you seem like you don't really give a shit
either way, the more DESPERATELY she'll want you to
validate her feelings!)
But don't give her that validation. Keep her
wondering: will she ever be able to have you all for
herself, or will you be with another girl tomorrow
when she's waiting for your phone call?
She'll want to keep earning points with you, to get
the confirmation that she desires. In the meantime,
you are the one holding the cards.
And if you're ready for an IN-DEPTH education on
everything from overcoming fear, approaching younger
women... to getting numbers and dates AND taking
things with them to a "physical level", then you MUST
get your hands on a copy of this:
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It's JAM PACKED with over 11+ full hours of
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MARTIN MURIITHI
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