5 Ways to Sexually "Turn Off" Women

I looked at her like she was crazy.

About a month ago, I was engaged in a deep
conversation with a female "friend" of mine.

The topic was what "turns on" women.

My point was a guy should focus on pleasing a
woman.

She on the other hand, had the viewpoint that
guys should be ONLY concerned with eliminating
the behaviors which can "turn-off" a woman:

Well after arguing for half an hour, I realized
she had some valid points.

In fact, I came to the conclusion that all guys
can learn a lot about what turns off women.

If you can avoid them, you'll take
that crucial first step towards pleasing a
woman.

So with that in mind, here are FIVE of things
that REALLY turn off women:

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1- Bad hygiene

Seriously, women hate when guys smell or have
poor hygiene.

Before you even think about hopping in the
sack, you should make sure you've showered
and don't smell like you've run a marathon.

In addition, it's important to do the proper
maintenance actions like shaving, applying
deodorant, cleaning your ears and brushing
your teeth.

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2- Being a poor kisser

Women love guys who can kiss with passion.

The converse is they hate guys who either act
too wussy or too aggressive when they kiss.

This means if your kissing skills lack a
punch, then you'll probably disgust her.

If you want to turn her on, it's important
to find out how to kiss and work hard at
applying this technique.

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3- Acting like a wimp

The simple truth about sex is women want
to be with men who act like MEN.

If you're acting like a wimp in the bedroom,
then you're turning her off. Wussy behavior
involves asking her if "she's enjoying
herself" or being too afraid to try new
things.

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4- Acting too aggressive

Now being too aggressive is just as bad
as acting like a wimp.

When you try to push a woman around you'll
display disgusting behavior.

If she thinks you're only concerned with
your own pleasure, then she won't enjoy
sex with you.

While women want men who act confidently,
you should NEVER get too aggressive
with a woman.

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5- Rushing things

Women love the entire process of sex.

To them, the build up and foreplay is as
just as important as the main act. So if
you rush through things, you'll probably
turn off your woman.

To make a woman enjoy herself, you should
take your time and focus on her pleasure.

With that said, I recommend you go HERE
to learn how turn her on:

==> http://www.chickmagnet101.com/turnoffs.html

Honestly, there is a lot to be learned
about women's sexuality.

If you can eliminate (or never display) the
five behaviors I just listed in this article,
you'll discover it's easy to become one of
the BEST lovers she's ever had!

Talk Soon,

MARTIN

5 Boyfriend Annihilator Tactics You Must Know (*CONTROVERSIAL* Content)

[1: LEAD ARTICLE] 5 Boyfriend Annihilator Tactics You

Must Know
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By Benjamin Damien, The "Boyfriend Destroyer Guru" (Click Here)

Say, you meet a girl and she's wonderful. In fact, you think that this IS

the special woman that you've been waiting all your life.

Then, she utters that dreaded line...

"I have a boyfriend."

I'm sure that you have encountered this scenario, and you wondered
how you could get this woman to ditch who she calls as her "boyfriend"

and come into your arms. But how are you gonna do it?

Don't worry, we've got your back! In this issue of TRL, I'm going
to share with you exactly how to make a woman who is already
attached to leave her boyfriend for you. We have previously covered
some Boyfriend Destroyer techniques, but in this issue, we'll talk
about the 5 definitive "Boyfriend Annihilator Tactics" that would
turbo-charge your seduction powers in no time:

Ben's Top 5 Boyfriend Annihilator Tactics

#1: The "Your BF Is Awesome" Tactic. Here's a sneaky way to

make a woman feel that her boyfriend is sorely inadequate. Talk about

how AWESOME her boyfriend is, and then exaggerate it until it sounds
virtually impossible to happen. This would make her subconsciously
think if what you say is true... and most of the time it would fall SHORT

of her expectations.

For example, say. "You two look like you'll grow old together, and
have a bunch of great kids!" If he's the kind of guy who happens to
be reluctant of settling down, then she would question his long-term

commitment to her in her mind. Yes, it's darn sneaky.

To make this work, you MUST sing praises of her boyfriend. Avoid the

mistake of trying to bash her boyfriend. This would make her feel

defensive, and she would get the urge to speak in SUPPORT of
him. Another bad mistake is to try to CONVINCE her that you're the
better deal. It never works, and it makes you look like a desperate
loser. Use reverse psychology... see the next tactic below.

#2: The "Reverse Psychology" Tactic. Tell her that you would make

a horrible boyfriend if you two would ever hook up. Tell her that she

would never want to have someone like you as a boyfriend. This is one

variation of the "Disqualifier" tactic... which I am going to share with you

next.

#3: The "Disqualifier" Tactic. Constantly tell her that things won't

work out between both of you. Keep making excuses... and make them

"weak" on purpose. The purpose of disqualifying yourself is to make

yourself unpredictable... and make her keep trying to figure you out.

This way you'll be able to keep her feeling intrigued and interested to

find out what you really think about her.

Some sample disqualifier lines -

- "It's a shame that we can relate to each other so well... because
I've decided NOT to get a girlfriend for at least a year."

- "You remind me of my first crush... we were so passionate, but it
was just so... wrong."

- "We'd be horrible together. We'd just spend days and nights in
bed, and we won't do anything productive."

#4: The "Future Projection" Tactic. Future Projections are stories
(which are perhaps somewhat unrealistic) involving you and her which

takes place in the future. This works well in seduction (especially in the

case of boyfriend destroying) because it shows a woman that you live

in a reality so strong that she wouldn't be able to resist you.

It's difficult to fully describe this tactic so we'll get into the details in

the next few issues of TRL. Meanwhile, understand that it would be

easier to pull this trick off if you use Derek's Dark Rake Method. What you'd

need to do is to describe a future situation (e.g. "Imagine we are far

away in a deserted island...") and then ENHANCE the experience

using the Strawberry Fields Forever inside the 2nd manual of the

Dark Rake Method.

#5: The "Value Elicitation" Tactic. Ask her to imagine and describe
her IDEAL boyfriend... and do it as vividly as possible. When she does

this, she would be subconsciously comparing what she imagines as ideal

with her actual boyfriend. Remember...you want to plant ideas in her

mind that her boyfriend falls short of what she wants... and she deserves

better.

With these 5 techniques, you will come off as the "better deal" when

compared to her boyfriend. If you combine these with the legendary

Boyfriend Destroyer Routines, girlfriend snatching would indeed become

laughably easy to you.

Check out the full Boyfriend Destroyer system here -

www.boyfrienddestroyer.com

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[2 - READER Q&A] "Email Seduction - How To Make It Work?"
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Note: If you'd like to send us a question, be sure to indicate your
first name (or a pseudonym if you wish) and where you come from.
Thanks!

Hey Derek,

I really like the email seduction technique which you sent (TRL #121 -

July 18th, 2010 issue).

I didn't realize that I was making the mistake as I tried to apply the

Dark Rake Method (particularly the Yin & Yang routine in the Manual 2).

I know I need to make my emails short... but I'm having problems making

them work for me. Any tips on how to seduce a woman over email?

- Ruck, Florida

Derek says:

Hey Ruck, here's the deal. I always exclusively use text over email at the

START, but if you prefer using email then follow this tips:

1. TAKE IT SLOW. Women hate to be rushed into things... and that's
really unlike us guys who could get aroused by the flick of a switch.

When you email her, don't reveal everything, and always end your email

with a "cliffhanger" ending. Which would then prompt her to email you

back to find out more...

2. DESCRIBE THINGS VIVIDLY. If you're going to ask her out,

then describe the date... as detailed as possible. Tell her about the

place... the atmosphere, the sights and smells. Ask her what she'll be

wearing...in detail. When you do this, you'll do a mini "Future

Projection" attraction technique on her (see the previous article) - and

trigger deep level attraction in her.

 

These two little tricks should get you going, but if you want the whole

enchilada on using emailing (or messaging on Facebook) to attract women,

then download the Online Dating Playbook. It's required reading for all

my clients - in this day and age there's no way any guy can avoid having to

interact with women online. Fact.

 
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[3: SPECIAL FEATURE] "How To Seduce Asian Women - In 3

Easy Steps"
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I've noticed that of late, a huge number of guys are writing in to TRL,

sharing 'problems' they were having when it comes to dating & getting

Asian women.

And I don't blame them.

It *is* a REAL problem at this day and age because it's true...

Asian women are tremendously difficult to understand. The way they view

dating, love, marriage, and romantic relationships are completely different

than that of Western cultures.

Knowing little, knowing close to nothing about their culture, their language,

their roots, it's really no surprise most men get knocked out... BAD.

If you want specific techniques and strategies for you to get yourself that

enchanting, slender & LOVING Asian girl you've always wanted, then

read on...

Step #1: Know The Gatekeepers.

It's very important for you to start building "gate keeper" relationships.

This means making AAF's (Asian Female Friends) who will then give

you access to more Asian women. You probably won't be having sex

with any of these AAFs. Their function will be to introduce you to their

cute friends and get you into their social circles.

When Asian women go out, they tend to hang together in groups, and
it can be extremely hard to "penetrate" the group and introduce yourself

when you don't know any of them. The best possible way to meet a

beautiful Asian girl is to be introduced to her by one of her friends who

knows you (and "vouches" for you as a good guy).

Step #2: Read The Signals.

When I was in graduate school, I had cute classmates from Japan, China,

Singapore, Taiwan and Thailand come to my crappy little on-campus

apartment to study with me.

I thought they just wanted to study; I didn't want to creep them out by

trying something sexual. But now I realize that they were totally up for

sex. Otherwise, they wouldn't have been hanging out at my apartment

until midnight. It was an unusually aggressive move for an Asian woman

to invite herself to my place to "study" at night.

But I didn't read the signal-- so we would study, and she would go home.

If only I'd read the signals and "escalated" with these girls (read the

"Secrets Of Dating Asian Women" book for more information on this

process).

Follow up on all hints of interest in a polite and focused manner. If she

says "you should come see my house sometime," don't just say "yeah,

OK, let me know when you want me to come by." Tell her you can

come by on Saturday or Sunday, and ask her which is better for her.

Make a plan. Don't blow your chance.

Step #3: Love them and they will love you back with great

intensity.

If an Asian woman is extremely beautiful by the standards of her
society, then of course guys are going to kiss her ass and treat her

like a princess. But that's only 1% or 2% of Asian women. The rest

are often severely lacking in self-confidence. If she's past her mid-

twenties and still single, she may be afraid that she'll never find a man.

Where she comes from, women are held to an extremely high standard.

The point is, by loving the Asian woman that you are with at the

moment and giving her your complete attention, you will make her feel

extremely special. This means keep your cell phone turned off, hold

her hand in a proud way when you walk with her, pay for everything,

be polite and respectful, and tell her the little things about her that you

find cute or sexy. (Her laugh, her smile, her hair, the way she walks, etc.)

If you're reading this right now and you would like to learn more 'secrets'

on how to get an Asian woman to come home with you AND come inside

with you after a date, how to get her "turned on", and how to smoothly

take things to a "physical level" in a way that she'll enjoy, then you should

check this out:

www.therakeletter.com/seduceasianwomen.html

... because inside, you'll uncover *hundreds* more ideas on how to do so.

You can download it right now, and be reading it in a few minutes... Just

go here -

How to Seduce Asian Woman

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7 reasons why women cheat

                You’ve probably heard that men cheat for physical reasons, women for emotional reasons. Sure, there’s some truth to that, but when we asked real women around the country to share why they strayed from their boyfriends, we learned they had a whole host of explanations — from bad kissing to sheer revenge. Read on for the truth about why women have given in to temptation.

Reason #1: There’s no passion
“I had been with John for about three years — he was a really nice guy, and I enjoyed being with him, but there wasn’t a ton of passion. Most everyone we knew had gotten engaged, and though John would have proposed in a second, whenever he brought it up, I’d change the subject. I took a trip to Australia for work and while I was gone, I got together with a coworker to whom I’d always been insanely attracted. I had a fantastic trip, probably because for the first time in a long time I experienced that excitement I’d been missing. I broke up with John soon after I returned home and began dating the guy from the trip. Even though I’m not super-proud of my actions, things ended up for the best: after dating for a few years, the guy from the trip and I got married and we’re incredibly happy together.”
– Giselle, 30, Montvale, NJ

Reason #2: To delay a breakup
“Right before I was going to break up with my ex, Sean, he found out that he had to put his beloved dog to sleep. He was so broken up about it that I didn’t have the heart to end things, so I waited a month or so until he was in better shape. When things seemed to be better and I was ready, he lost his job, so I felt like I was back to square one! By that time I had met someone else that I really wanted to start seeing, so I went ahead and did it. I eventually ended things, never telling Sean about my extracurricular dating. I think I rationalized that I was trying to spare his feelings.”
– Stacy, 30, Lexington, KY

Reason #3: Because absence doesn’t make the heart grow fonder
“My boyfriend Greg and I decided to do the long-distance thing after I was accepted to a graduate program 200 miles from where we lived. The first few months were fine, but I soon found myself becoming extremely attracted to my lab partner, Henry. What began as innocent flirting eventually wound up with us getting physical. After the program was over, I returned home to Greg. Being with him was really difficult, but I didn’t break up with him initially because I was still attracted to him, too. I visited Henry a few times and realized that he was really more of a fling, probably done out of boredom, and that Greg was the one for me. I eventually stopped communicating with Henry. I never told Greg about what happened, which occasionally makes me feel guilty, but I chalk my cheating up to being young and silly. He and I are still together, four years after my program ended.”
– Tamara, 33, Portland, OR

Reason #4: To avoid being left out in the cold
“I began dating Eric shortly after I had been dumped by Dave, my boyfriend of two years. I was devastated and Eric was definitely a rebound thing. After Eric and I had dated for five months, Dave came back and wanted to give things another shot. I still really missed him, so I began seeing him, but never ended things with Eric. I think I sort of kept Eric around for insurance purposes, just in case things didn’t end up well with Dave. Dave and I didn’t make it on round two, and after Eric discovered through mutual friends that I had been seeing him again, he ended things with me. I definitely learned my lesson about dating two guys at the same time, not to mention trying to rekindle a relationship that’s just plain over.”
– Jen, 28, Oak Park, IL

Reason #5: To make a break from a bad relationship
“When I was younger, I dated a guy named Ethan who was really critical of me. He constantly made little snide comments about my weight, how stupid I was and how clumsy I was. For whatever odd reason, I was into him, despite the fact that all of my friends and family hated him. One weekend when he was away, I met Will at a party and we completely hit it off. He was the complete opposite of Ethan — kind, sweet and generous, yet completely cool and fun, too. We hung out all weekend and it was like a light bulb went off in my head: This is how mature, relationship-worthy guys act. I kissed Will the night before he left and broke up with Ethan soon after. Will and I dated for three years and now we’re married.”
– Allison, 30, New York, NY

Reason #6: To find that missing piece
“I’m from Florida, so I adore going to the beach and boating, but my former boyfriend, Chris, a total city boy, hated it. We always argued about where we’d take trips, and he always won. About eight months into our relationship, I took a trip to Key West with my friends and we chartered a boat for the day. The captain of the boat was this totally hot, complete ‘beach guy for life’ type, and I spent the whole day flirting with him. We met him out that night and spent time alone together. I never told Chris about it after I got home and I never felt guilty; I think part of me felt like that’s what Chris got for being so stubborn! Chris and I didn’t make it, and after we broke up, I made sure any future boyfriends loved the beach!”
– Lizzie, 32, Chicago, IL

Reason #7: To give him a taste of his own medicine
“My last boyfriend was a total player before we got together. I thought I could change him but I was wrong. I always heard rumors that he was seeing other girls while we were dating, but he always denied it. One night, I got a call from a girl he had been secretly dating, and she detailed their three-month-long relationship to me and told me about another girl she had discovered he was seeing as well. I was so mad that I went out with my friends that night, dressed to kill, and spent time with the most attractive guy; I felt like it was the least he deserved! I loved seeing the look on his face when I told him about what I did and that I knew about the other girls. And then I dumped him!”
– Ashante, 25, College Park, GA