An incredible social life is the cornerstone of a successful dating life. It's a simple equation: More people = more opportunities = More girls But what can you do if you're a guy who doesn't have a great social life? Well there's a couple of solutions. In the fact, I've perfected a simple 7-step system for dominating ANY social encounter: . Step #1 - Call your friends The first step is to provide a simple baseline for the rest of this plan. Right now, you probably have a core group of friends who are part of your social circle. If you want to meet more people then you're going to start with this group. So the initial thing to do is call up your friends and make plans to do something different. The key is to organize an event which brings you out of your comfort zone and make you fun stuff. In other words, you want to start going to places which provide a social environment. . Step # 2- Look for hidden opportunities As you become more social you're going the likelihood of getting invited to different events. Due to inertia, most guys avoid "uncomfortable environments." Instead of doing this, you should start going to these events EVEN if you don't think they'll be fun. The truth is you never know what'll happen when you try different things. Perhaps the most boring event could provide a chance to meet an interesting girl. So never pass up an invitation to an event. The rule of thumb is if you don't have plans, you'll ALWAYS accept an invitation to do something. . Step # 3- Make friends While it's great to have old friends, your social life can get a real shot in the arm if you start making new friends at the events you're frequenting. One piece of advice I recommend is to talk to EVERYONE at these events. Even if it's a bunch of guys, you can still get a lot of social mileage by talking to people who have connections. Even the most mundane person probably knows a few attractive women. By making connections with everyone, you're giving yourself opportunities to find new friends and meet more girls. Here's a video that explains how to make an INSTANT connection with any girl you've met: ==> http://www.chickmagnet101.com/ . Step #4- Keep contact with your new friends I like to think of friends as currency. The more you have, the more you opportunities you'll accumulate. As you meet new people, you'll start to build momentum on the number of buddies you'll acquire. In order to maximize your opportunities, you should maintain constant contact with the friends that you're making. Even if you're just sending a quick email, a consistent correspondence with your friends will improve your social life. By communicating with your friends you'll stick out in their minds when a cool event is about to happen. . Step #5- Keep up to date Almost every area has lots of fun stuff happening. The problem is most guys won't bother to look for them. Instead they're satisfied with doing the same thing over and over. Don't be like these guys. Instead become the man who is up to date on all events happening in your area. All you have to do is open you're local paper and you'll have access to dozens, even hundreds of fun things going on. Right now, commit yourself to spending a few minutes each week looking for interesting events going on in your area. . Step #6- Plan events It's human nature to want to be around fun people. So if you become the guy who plans out the fun times then you'll become the focal point of your social circle. What you want to do is plan out a few different interesting activities EACH month and invite everyone that you know. Eventually the people in your social life will look to you to plan out the good times. Over time, you can use these events to meet interesting women. Again, this is critical part of being a social master that's naturally attractive to women: ==> http://www.chickmagnet101.com/ . Step #7- Be fun Finally, you have to go beyond being the guy who plans out fun events. At all times, you must display a fun and interesting personality. When you attend social activities, you should be regarded as the guy who can make others have a good time. The truth is most people live boring lives. If you're the source of interesting experiences then people will want to hang out with you. The end result is you'll become the first person they call when they want to have a fun night. Improving your social life is one of the crucial elements for meeting and dating a lot of women. If you follow the seven rules I just discussed, then you'll discover that it's pretty easy to transform into a fun guy who has an incredible social life. |
Monday, August 22, 2011
7 Steps for Dominating ANY Social Scene
Subscribe to:
Post Comments (Atom)
No comments:
Post a Comment