in love.
While it's a lot of fun to date different women
and play the field, there will be a time when you
want to go beyond a casual relationship.
In all likelihood, you'll come to the point where
you want to find that special someone.
So how can you make the woman that you want love
you back?
Well here are 5 simple tips to make this happen...
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~~> Step #1- Know that love is different then
attraction
The one thing you should always remember is
attracting a woman is MUCH different than getting
her to love you.
In other words, it's easy to show a high status
personality to hook her interest.
But it's a lot harder to get her to develop those
lasting kind of feelings that go beyond simple
sexual attraction.
That's why you should show the REAL you that's
hidden beneath the surface.
With love, you have to show FEELINGS and
reciprocate her nurturing nature.
You should allow her to be attracted to the fun
and alpha side of you, but love the good person
you are deep inside.
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~~> Step #2- Act like a MAN
Real men don't act in a deceptive and fake
manner.
If you want her to love you, you must be worthy
of this love.
This means avoiding all the games that men and
women play during the courtship period.
A real man is good to the woman he's with and
doesn't do anything to hurt her.
Ultimately her love must be returned through
YOUR actions and words.
So if you're into dating multiple women, don't
tell her she's the ONLY one.
In fact, if don't want to settle down, do
yourself a favor and keep her at an emotional
distance.
It'll only end up hurting her feelings if
you're not looking for a committed
relationship.
On the other hand, if you're secretly harboring
feelings for a certain girl, NOW is the time to
DO something about it.
Here's a site that can show you how:
==> http://www.chickmagnet101.com/
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~~> Step #3- Make your intentions evident
I'm going to be honest here...
Women like to think long term!
If you've established yourself in a
relationship, then she's probably thought about
what it'll be like with you on a
permanent basis (ie: marriage).
So if this is something you want in your life,
then your actions should reflect this goal.
In essence you have to act in a way that'll
demonstrate a genuine desire to settle down and
possibly marry her.
To do this, you should bring her around your
friends, invite her to important functions in
your life and basically include her in all
aspects of your life.
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~~> Step #4- Communicate with her
Communication is to key to developing a loving
relationship.
Unfortunately as a gender we're not known for
our communication skills.
However if you're serious about this woman,
you have to be open about the things which
are going on in your life.
This also means taking a genuine interest in
what she's doing and getting to know her an
intimate capacity.
Furthermore, there will be times when the two
of you will get in an argument.
When these moments happen, you have to remember
she is someone you love, and you shouldn't say
anything which you can't take back.
In other words don't intentionally hurt her
feelings.
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~~> Step #5- Keep things fun and sexual
One of the obstacles in a relationships is
the "friend trap."
This is when you slowly develop into more of
a friendship rather than a relationship.
Finally you must ensure that your relationship
is still fun and exciting as it evolves.
While most women are looking for a special
someone who can share their feelings, you
can't let things get boring and stagnant.
If you're serious about this woman then you
must WORK to keep things fun.
This means still being a fun, interesting guy
and keeping the romance alive.
So go on exciting trips, buy her presents,
and don't be afraid to spice things up in the
bedroom.
Love is the ultimate goal of a serious
relationship.
If you can make her love you then you'll be on
the pathway towards build an incredible future
with the woman of your dreams.
Talk Soon,
KENYAN LAD
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